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Women and Dating in the midst of Good Friendship

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

If there is something that has been written in a very wide and huge panorama, it’s the glory of the friendship the women have that run all the way from

dating to various other levels. However many women wallow in loneliness with a lack of dating instances and true friendships that can amount to anything.

They depict all chances of friendship hunger, as they peer at the joy and happiness that others in their society keep on enjoying themselves in as they feel the tenacious hunger.

It is that dating outing that your friend went that might be sending charges of pain in your heart, but it might not be heading anywhere. This is what the fantasy that we have intertwined in our belief about the companionship of others, and it might be as empty as ours, or even worse. If we have to say the least, women do undergo a dilemma and a jigsaw puzzle in their act of finding good, viable and available companions. Women want to get into a dating mood once their time has arrived and they don’t want to be left by the women they see being dated, married and having wonderful relationships.

This is what makes them mad and frustrated, with their hearts so heavy and very hurt. The positive thing about women is that they will finally find their mark, start novel and rich relationships that fill them with great pleasure. Once they start dating and living their dream women are the happiest of all human beings. The men are mostly the lucky recipients when their women are happy, while the reverse is true. You don’t have to be dejected anymore; you can also find a person who will touch your heart.

Always be hopeful. If there is something that you have never learned, it is the fact that loneliness and lack of dating relationships is a universal disease that is curable. This is like manna in the world of heaven. You can believe that you will not spend the rest of you time alone and full of misery. You cannot. You must remember friends of any kind are a resource that can be renewed. So says the chronicles of human nature.

Dating is something that will grace your life in no time, and it will not be like spending a whole evening at home doing absolutely nothing as your good neighbors are having a wonderful dating experience under candle lit dinners. It does not matter, you can easily find that you have a better relationship than they, having a satisfying companionship and you will just ask yourself what the fuss was all about.

What you need to be is creative and strategic. To find a man does not entail staying at home and bore you with one TV show after the other. It means going out there and socializing with like-minded individuals. Whether in churches, local clubs or bars, or even in online dating, you will notice after you have been successful that loneliness is just like a flue that just goes away at its opportune time, and just a temporary interlude.

What Do Women Want From Men?

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

It’s no secret that men and women are different. It is no news that they look for different things in a relationship. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. What do women want from men? There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old, fat, skinny, talkative, quiet, beautiful, not so beautiful.

One thing that is clear is that everyone looks for a perfect relationship. Men are remarkable by their caution and carefulness. Women though are much more fussy. When it comes to choosing men, they not only have a greater list of requirements, they’re also keen to make the effort to help the guy change. But despite their striving for talking things through, most men still struggle to understand exactly what women need to be happy with them.

What do women want? They just want to be happy like us. They just have a different way to show it. If you learn their language, listen when you’d rather speak, hug instead of just walking away, tell the truth till it hurts, be a man she can depend on and love her like you love yourself. You’ll no longer ask what women want, they’ll be asking you what you want and give it to you.

Here are some true things that we can say safely women want from men.

Value. Women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain “gotta have” quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!

Structure. A woman wants stability, balance, a sense of order. She wants someone she can rely on. You say you’re going to be home at 9:00, you be home at 9:00. You are late? Call. The hardest thing for us guys is to differenciate between support and total control. Creating a foundation and stability doesn’t mean trying to solve all the problems to the point you disempower the one you love. Your love is not a crutch but a bond. A bond where dependability is synonymous with trust.

Security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everyting’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.

Love . Love them most of all. Let it all out. Let it all out every day, every minute of every second of every day. Be love, crawl up inside of it and approach every problem with the question what would love do now? If you do this, fear will never enter your life.

Appreciation. Women DO want to feel appreciated. They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wanted – but don’t slave over her and make her feel like you can’t live without her. That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.

Don’t lie. A woman can forgive a lot of things but she won’t put up with a snake in the grass liar. If once she caught you that you lied her she would never have more trust in you. Lie to a woman you are dissing her. Tell the truth, you live to play another day.

Hug her. Hug her in the morning, hug her before you leave to work, e-mail her a hug and hug her ten times when you get home. You must make her feel loved and protected.

Smile. Women don’t like boring men .Be someone who smiles, who doesn’t take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy who’s stiff and serious – even if he is good looking or wealthy.

A woman want a man with a purpose. It’s not necessary to have a lot of money and a great car but they do want to be headed towards success. They do want to living up to your potential.

So, as a summary women like to be understood, happiness, respect and they also want honesty. But, as the time goes by, the woman wishes change because she is setting new goals. Why men can’t figure women out is because they are a masterpiece in progress.